Women With Insecurities
- This can be more repulsive than a woman who has to
clean 24 hours a day because she constantly thinks the
house is dirty. I'm sure you know what I mean, a woman
who is always insecure about the relationship. She
either thinks you always think she is fat, that her
cooking is no good, or at worst you are cheating. This
can get nerve racking to say the least. We have all
known women who think that every second their man is
cheating on them. I'm sure that some times they are
right, but often times it isn't the case. They are
paranoid. It can start out simply as asking questions.
She might want to know if you went straight home from
work etc etc.
Often times it can go to the extreme.
She asks why you smell like cigarette smoke. You try to
explain that a few of your friends from work went out to
grab a quick bite to eat after work. The ideas start to
roll in from there. She might think you went out to a
bar with a 'lady friend'.
She may start to count every penny you spend. In her
mind maybe she can find a money trail to your mistress.
She will ask where every cent has went. God forbid you
are a penny short, because in her mind that means you
must be spending it on some other women.
She may count all of the mileage on your car.
What she might not realize is that you may have some
errands that needed ran or you drop by a friends house
unexpected for a visit. Every mile you go over means
you were traveling to see your other woman.
I could go on and on. There are many things over the
years that I have heard. At first it pisses you off,
but trust me, you will get used to it.
Sometimes the insecurity can be a result of a tragic
event that might have recently happened. A friend or
relative might have passed away, maybe finances are kind
of tough, or maybe there is some stress that you aren't
aware of in her life. Sometimes dealing with the kids
and the household chores is a lot for a person to
handle.
I would watch how long this goes on for. If it has
only been going on for a short time, I would try to
find the cause. If it is something that you know
already know of, like a relatives passing, I wouldn't
let it bother you. If she gets out of hand for a long
period of time, I would suggest to her that she talks to
a therapist.
If this has been going on since the first day you met
her, I would also suggest to her to get some help.
Obsessive compulsive thoughts can be treated with
therapy and medication, or both. She may have a legit
medical problem. Many people suffer from such things in
various forms. There are even online support groups
where she can find other people with it that she can
talk to. It will help her greatly for her to find
someone who understands what she is going through and be
able to talk to.
This can be very hard to handle
and may cause you to go utterly insane. If you truly
love her, I would suggest either trying to get her some
help or just putting up with it. If she is your special
someone, then it is worth it.
On the other hand if this is just a girlfriend who
thinks you are cheating all the time and she nags you
about it.... I would suggest dumping the crazed bitch
before it eats you alive. There is no need for that.
Let her ruin someone else's life.
