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PC Exercises &
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I will present a
condensed outline of how to exercise the PC muscle and why
you do so. This will help answer many questions that have
been asked of me.
Locating your PC muscle:
You probably knew where to find it the moment I mentioned
it. But for review, I will start from the beginning. All of
the individual muscles close to the groin - buttocks,
abdomen, thighs, and PC may feel the same. They might all
feel like one big muscle mass. Here is the simplest way to
find your PC muscle and isolate it from all the others.
First, gently place one or two fingers right behind your
testicles. Pretend that you are urinating. Now try to stop
the flow. The muscle you just used to turn off the flow from
the bladder is your PC muscle. Did you feel it tightening?
Maybe you also noticed that your penis and testicles
"jumped" a little when you flexed your PC.
It is important that your stomach muscles and thigh muscles
remain relaxed. Did they get tense too? Here is a trick if
they are getting in the way. Try flexing your stomach
muscles or thigh muscles a number of times to tire them out
and you will have a better time of isolating the PC muscle.
You are not trying to get an erection here, and you do not
need an erection to exercise the PC. Relax and let your
penis respond naturally to these exercises.
Exercise 1. Squeeze Play (three to five minutes a day)
Three times a dy, flex the PC twenty times. Hold it for one
or two seconds each time, then release. That's it. Twenty
squeezes, three times a day.
You do not need to keep your finger on the PC during these
exercises. You should be able to feel it move internally. If
you don't, or if you're not sure, then keep your finger on
the PC the first few times you do your exercise.
Breathe normally during this exercise. Like any other muscle
building exercise, proper breathing is always important. You
don't want to hold your breath.
Repeat this exercise three times a day, every day, for three
weeks.
These PC exercises are easy and can be done anywhere - in
the car, at the beach, or while sitting at your desk. Do it
on a long line at the bank, or on a bus etc.
PC Pitfalls:
Doing too many reps. Go slow at first, as you would when you
start any other exercise. You can pour it on later.
Failing to isolate the PC. It is important that your
stomach, upper thighs, and buttocks are all completely
relaxed when you are working out the PC.
You might have a tendency to tense your other muscles during
your exercise . What you need to do is tense and untense
your stomach or other muscles ten or twenty times before you
begin your PC workout. That will tire them out so they don't
get in the way.
Exercise 2. The Big Squeeze (two to three minutes a day)
Have you done Exercise 1. for three weeks? You are now ready
for the "The Big Squeeze" (a.k.a "The Power Squeeze" or "The
Death Grip" Keep doing your twenty squeezes, three times a
day, but now you are going to add ten really slow squeezes.
Take five seconds to slowly squeeze your PC as tight as you
can. Now hold the tension for a full five seconds, if
possible. Finally, release the tension gradually over the
next five seconds. You should be able to feel yourself
really working the muscle.
This might be a bit difficult at first. You may only be able
to do one or two fifteen second squeezes before you tire.
That's okay. But try to eventually work up to ten full
repetitions, each taking ten to fifteen seconds. It's most
important that you don't push yourself too hard.
Concentrate on control. You should be feeling each
repetition and trying to control that PC whenever you want.
MALE MULTIPLE ORGASM AND THE MULTIORGASMIC MAN
A multiorgasmic man quite simple, is a man who can have two
or more orgasms in a row without resting. He does not
experience any significant down time between his orgasms. By
"down time," I mean a refractory period in between orgasms
when the penis is not easily aroused. A multiogasmic man is
able to maintain his erection, even though he has already
had an orgasm, and continue making love from orgasm to
orgasm. Unlike most "normal" men, a multiorgasmic man does
not lose his ability to stay erect after his first orgasm.
He can continue to a second or even a third or fourth orgasm
without resting. This is not the same as having two or more
orgasms in an afternoon of lovemaking with periods of rest
or breaks in between. The multiorgasmic man does not need a
rest. He might want to, and he certainly can, but he doesn't
have to stop. He is capable of continuing to make love
immediately after orgasm.
There are some men, particularly young men, who are just
plain lucky. These guys are naturals. Men like this are born
multiogasmic. For the rest of us, we have to be trained in
it.
ORGASM WITHOUT EJACULATION......
As far as most men are concerned, there is not such thing as
an orgasm without ejaculation. It's a package deal, like
thunder and lightening, right? Wrong. This may be hard to
believe, but orgasm and ejaculation in males are two
separate things. Yes, they typically occur together, and
yes, if feels as though they are a package deal. But the
physiological reality is that they are not inseparable. It
is possible to have a full orgasm without simultaneous
ejaculation. You can however, have an orgasm with
ejaculation, but you will determine when and if you want to,
and not your penis.
Did you know, for example, that ejaculation acutally occurs
in two phases: emission and expulsion. In the emission phase
of your ejaculation, semen starts to move through the vas
deferens as muscles near the prostate gland begin to spasm.
The semen collects in the urethral bulb at the base of the
penis. In the second phase of your ejaculation, the
expulsion phase, the PC muscle starts to contract, forcing
the semen up through the urethra and out of the penis.
In a nutshell, here's what happening. In the emission phase,
semen from the testicles and prostate takes a little subway
ride to the base of the penis, prodded along by the
contractions of muscles near the prostate gland.
In the expulsion phase, your old friend the PC muscle picks
up the ball and pushes the semen up through the penis and
out into the world.
Phase 1: The cannon is loaded. Phase 2. The cannon is fired.
THE ENTIRE EJACULATION PROCESS--EMISSION AND EXPULSION--
TAKES ABOUT TWO SECONDS.
SPECIAL TIP: WHEN YOU REACH THE POINT OF NO RETURN, YOU AND
YOUR PARTNER SHOULD STOP THRUSTING. kEEP TAKING DEEP
BREATHS. OPEN YOUR EYES, FOCUS ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR
GENITALS, AND TRY TO FEEL THE SEMEN MOVING FROM YOUR
TESTICLES, TO THE BASE OF YOUR PENIS, AND UP THROUGH THE
URETHRA.
COULD YOU FEEL THE SEMEN COLLECTING? DID YOU FEEL YOUR PC
SPASM? IF YOU STOPPED THRUSTING IN TIME, YOUR TWO-SECOND
EJACULATION PROBABLY FELT AS IF IT TOOK FIVE TO TEN SECONDS.
For most men, the contraction of the PC during expulsion is
an involuntary process. Once you take control of your PC
muscle, however, you can voluntarily delay or prevent
ejaculation. Yet your body still experiences the full
sensation of orgasm, complete with rapid heart rate, muscle
contractions, and the intese sensation of release.
Understanding the difference between emission and expulsion
helps you learn to actually feel these two distinct phases
of ejaculation as they are happening to you. Most men are
very aware of the expulsion phase, but they have little
sense of what's happening prior to that. But if you want to
get the timing right in the last and most important
exercises, you're going to need a bit more ejaculation
awareness than the average guy.
KEY POINTS SO FAR:
PC exercises and awareness of the PC muscle are key to
controlling ejaculation.
Orgasm and ejaculation do not have to occur together; they
are two distinct phenomena that can be experienced as
separate pleasures.
A nonejaculatory orgasm feels as good, if not better, than a
conventional orgasm.
Having a nonejaculatory orgasm enables you to maintain an
erection and continue intercourse.
It is possible to have a second orgasm soon after your first
orgasm. It is even possible to have a third or fourth
orgasm, whether or not you ejaculate with any or all of your
orgasms.
THE REASON YOU ARE TRAINING YOUR PC MUSCLE IS TO GAIN
CONTROL OVER THE EJACULATION PROCESS. YOU CAN CONTROL
PREMATURE EJACULATION AS WELL AS DELAYING EJACULATION TO
OCCUR WHEN AND IF YOU WANT.
HOW AROUSED
ARE YOU?
Ask the average man if he's feeling aroused and what does he
say? "Yes" or "No". Ask him to describe his arousal and what
does he say? Not a whole lot more.
You need to know what is happening to your body during the
various stages of arousal. There are various levels of
arousal, each having its own distinct sensations and
intensity. Some shifts are subtle, some are profound, but it
is not a black or white thing. It's a lot more like a
rainbow. You will want to focus on and appreciate the
different colors of the rainbow and the subtle differences
of each one.
You need to know the various levels of your own arousal the
way a composer knows the notes on the scale. To make this
easier, you are going to establish a scale of your own: AN
AROUSAL SCALE.
The arousal scale is going to be a very simple scale that
goes from one to ten, with Level 1 being the lowest level of
arousal and Level 10 being the highest.
Lets begin with Level 1. There isn't a sexual thought in
your head. You are not experiencing any arousal whatsoever.
None. Zero. Nada. At that moment you are at Level 1.
Now lets jump to Level 10. That's an easy one. Level 10 is
orgasm. The Big "O". The end of the road.
Now all we need to do is establish everything in between.
A level 2 or Level 3 is that slight twinge sensation you get
at the base of your penis as you gegin to get aroused.
Next comes Level 4. That's a steady, low level of arousal.
It's more than a twinge now... you're feeling good. Still
you could stop without much difficulty.
At Level 5 and Level 6 your arousal is already substantial.
Now you're really into it. Once you reach these levels you
don't want to think about stopping. You're feeling too good
now. By the time you get to Level 7 or Level 8, you will
feel your heart pounding and your face may flush. Level 9 is
intense. You aren't far from the top now...you are very
close to orgasm.
Just short of Level 10 is a very crucial point I call "the
point of no return" It is commonly referred to as "the point
of inevitability." It's at that point at which it becomes
clear that you are about to have an orgasm. Once you've hit
the point of inevitability, there is no going back. Your
body is committed to having that orgasm.
On our 1 to 10 scale, this "point of no return" would
register a 9.9. This is a very important number for you to
remember.
Talking about levels of arousal can get a little bit
abstract after a while. You need to experience them. One of
the ways you learn each level is by comparing it to the
previous level, or to the following one. "How do I know what
a 3 is?" you may ask. It's a little higher than a 2. How do
you know you're at a 7? Well you definitely past a 5 or 6
but you haven't hit an 8.
Do note that these number are all relative to each other.
The important thing is that each level feels slightly
different. The only absolute number assignments are 1, which
is no arousal, 9.9 which is the point of no return, and 10,
which is orgasm.
Don't worry if your 4 is another man's 5. All that counts
are your own relative levels of arousal.
Please don't use these numbers to judge your performance in
any way. A "6" is not better than a "3"; a "4" is not worse
than a "7.' They're just different. The only goal is to
become more intimate with the subtle changes in your body
during your arousal.
WHAT ABOUT YOUR ERECTION?
It is very common for men to equate arousal with erections,
but they are NOT one and the same. Arousal is a feeling; it
is a subjective sense of excitement that can be experienced
throughout the body, though it is typically felt most keenly
in the genitals.
Erection, on the other hand, refers to hardness of the
penis. Erection is a very objective measure of hardness that
is a direct reflection of blood flowing into this organ. A
man can feel very aroused...incrredibly aroused...yet not be
erect.
Maybe you become fully erect at arousal Level4; maybe you
don't get erect until Level 6. Or maybe like most men, it's
different on different days. It doesn't matter right now
because you are not going to worry a lot about erections
here. You're concern right now is learning about your level
of arousal. Focusing too intently on your erection as a way
of discouraging the process. When you leave it alone, it
tends to come home. So don't think about it. Right now, all
you need to do is focus on your numbers.
HOW TO PEAK
Reaching a peak means letting your arousal rise to a certain
level and then immediately letting it drop back down. For
example, you may let your arousal rise to Level 6, then let
it fall back down. That's a Level 6 peak. Or you may let
your arousal rise to Level 9, then let it fall back down.
That's a Level 9 peak. (Remember that we are talking about
arousal here, not about erections.)
This is different from trying to maintain your arousal at a
given level, which is known as "plateauing." I will let you
know how to do that in another post.
You can do this exercise with a partner but for right now
and to shorten this post I will explain how to do it solo.
Lie down or sit down and get very comfortable. Put some
lubrication on your hand and on your penis. What you are
going to do now is start by giving yourself a genital
caress. Slowly stroke your self until you reach what you
would consider to be a Level 4 of arousal. That's past the
"twinge" stage to the point where you're feeling a low,
steady "hum" of arousal. Remember that you are not using a
masturbation stroke: you are caressing yourself.
When you get to Level 4, stop the stimulation and take a
deep breath... a really slow deep breath. Check your PC
muscle, your hip muscles, and your thigh muscles to make
sure they're all really relaxed. Now let your arousal drop
back down a couple of levels to a "2". Take your time. You
just had your first "peak" at Level 4.
Once you have dropped to Level 2, start your caress again.
This time, see if you can go up to around Level 6. You may
need to stroke yourself a little bit faster to get to this
slightly higher level. That's fine. When you reach Level,
stop the stimulation once again. Take a real slow deep
breath and let your arousal drop back down a few levels to
around a "4." Make sure all your muscles are completely
relaxed. Great. You have just had a "peak" at Level 6.
You are going to continue this exercise for the next fifteen
to twenty minutes. What You want to do is try to have a peak
at Level 4, Level 6, Level 7, Level 8, and Level 9, which is
the point just prior to your "point of no return". At each
level it's important to stop the stimulation, relax, take a
really deep breath, and make sure all of your muscles are
relaxed. Always let yourself drop at least one level,
preferably two, after each peak.
Try not to bring your arousal up in a spike, like shooting
from a Level 3 to a Level 8. You're trying to stretch out
your arousal into an extended series of gradually increasing
peaks. If you were going to graph your arousal, it would
look like a wave, not like a needle.
Don't rush your peaks. Each up and down cycle should take
four or five minutes. Stretch them out. Let them build
slowly and savor each one. As your peaks get higher and
higher, it may become more and more difficult to relax. One
way to overcome this by taking deeper and deeper breaths at
each level. If all this stimulation has made you need to
ejaculate, go ahead. Otherwise, you can stop the exercise
once you've completed four or five peaks. If you don't get
up to Level 8 or Level 9 the first time, that's okay; you
will with practice.
Ultimately, you will need to be able to peak at very high
level. This is not hard once you get used to the whole
process of peaking. Through repetition you will learn to
recognize and become comfortable at your different levels.
Believe it or not, it won't be long before you can even
differentiate between Levels 8, 8.5, 9, and 9.5. Talk about
knowing your own body! This kind of fine sensitivity to your
arousal will make multiple orgasm a snap.
ALL THE WHILE YOU STILL NEED TO DO PC EXERCISES AND ALSO
YOUR ENLARGING TECHNIQUES. IN THE END YOU WILL TRULY BE A
SUPERMAN.
Before I proceed, if you have read to this point, you will
have noted that there is a lot of work to be done on your
part. Enlarging your penis is childs play as compared to
this. You must master all of the preparatory exercises etc.
to build a solid foundation. You have to take baby steps
before you can be a superman. There is no overnight system
to transform you. However, as you have learned about PE, is
that, in time, and with hard work, you will reach your
goals.
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